It's been some time since i last wrote here... My family which consist of my beautiful wife and 2 lovely daughters, finally came to join me in August last year. It's such a relief that the family is now complete in a foreign land. Prior to that, i was like living in a lala-land, imagining doing activities with my family. And long distance relationship is actually not doing any good for a young family like us, emotionally and spiritually. Well, some people believe that 'Distance makes your heart grows fonder'. In some sense, it's actually true for a short period of time like less than a year, but being too long away from each other can also just make your heart disappear into thin air. It will make you think all sorts of silly questions that may not have been thought like, 'Can you define love?', 'Is there any love left in the relationship or is it just responsibility?'.
For me, love is indefinite. It can be a lot of things to a lot of different people such as 'Love=Money' or 'Love=Sex' or 'Love=Responsibility' or 'Love=Security' or 'Love=Children'. You can't really explain the meaning in any single words. It's just a feeling that is embedded in your heart that justify your actions. Maybe until one day, when you can really define true love, then you can start living your true life.
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